Monday, April 11, 2011

Harlem Church Post Bail For Prep Student Turned Gang-Banger

Harlem church to post bail for prep student turned gang-banger

Afrika Owes (Getty Images) From: NBC New York
Members of the Abyssinian Baptist Church voted Thursday night to post a $25,000 cash bail for the release of 17-year-old Afrika Owes from Rikers Island.

Owes has been at Rikers since mid-February, when she and 14 other alleged gang members were accused of drug dealing and gun running. Prosecutors say that the student fell under the influence of her boyfriend, Jaquan Layne, who led a violent street gang in her Harlem neighborhood.

Manhattan Supreme Court Justice Edward McLaughlin wouldn't allow the church to post bail until the majority of the congregation agreed.

According to Ted Shaw, attorney for the church and member of the congregation, the church voted unanimously to post the bail in a congregation meeting consisting of "500 to 600 members."
"I'm not in a position to say that it's done until the judge approves it," said Shaw. "But we resolved all of the issues that he wanted us to address."

According to Shaw, the church is waiting to post the bail because "we want to make sure Afrika Owes has the support she needs when she gets out." However, Shaw said that "it will be days, not weeks" before the bail is posted.

Owes' mother, Karen Owes, was overjoyed.
"As a mother, I'm happy and I'm with my church family," she said.
Afrika Owes, a brainy student who attended the prestigious Deerfield Academy on a scholarship before she left for breaking school rules, is worried about getting her schoolwork back on track.
"I called her, and she would constantly ask 'Can you bring my work? Can you bring my work?" said Owes' mother. "She just wants to get her schoolwork done and study for the SATs."
According to Owes' mother, Owes is "very happy" about the church's decision.

The church will also be glad to have Afrika Owes back. "Afrika Owes has been at Abyssinian since nursery school," said Shaw. "The Sunday School teachers, the deacons, and the ministry know her very well."
Reverend Calvin Butts, the chief pastor of the church, won't abandon Owes whether or not she is eventually found guilty, Shaw says.

"We know that young people make mistakes," he added. "If she did make those mistakes, the church will stand by her."

To read more stories from NBC New York, click here.

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Nephew Tommy Prank Call - Mean Church Usher

This is toooooooo funny - Enjoy!!!

Daily Bread Bible Verse

Verse of the day

“who being the brightness of His glory and the express image of His person, and upholding all things by the word of His power, when He had by Himself purged our sins, sat down at the right hand of the Majesty on high,” - Hebrews 1:3

Today's passage is from the New King James Version.

What's Your Online Reputation?





Get control of your online reputation now Digital lifestyle expert Mario Armstrong tells how to make sure your online reputation represents the real you.


(CBS News) From Facebook to Twitter to blogs, many people share much of our lives online. But there can be a downside: over-sharing. The Internet has become the go-to resource to destroy someone's life online, which in turn means their offline life gets turned upside down, too. So how can you check, monitor and, if necessary, improve your online reputation? Digital Lifestyle Expert Mario Armstrong shared his top tips on "The Early Show" to help you get in control of how you appear on the Internet. Armstrong said it's vital that people realize how important this really is going forward. "My fear is a lot of people aren't understanding this right now," he said. "They don't understand this is going to explode. Basically, your online expression is your first impression. You don't get a chance anymore to say, 'Hi, I'm Mario. Here's what I'm about.' The Web is it doing that for you." He continued, "You're seeing people also put up information that may not be appropriate about you. You may be doing it yourself or others could be doing it. That could result in kids losing out on college scholarships. I know kids that have lost scholarship opportunities because they haven't seen the information about them on the Web. Or people losing out on career promotions at their jobs. Or the other folks that are not understanding that this is a massive issue of people putting up what I call e-venge - taking revenge out on you on the Web because they can do so." "Early Show" co-anchor Chris Wragge noted there's no one monitoring this. So how can you take control of your reputation? You search your own name and start looking to see what's out there, Armstrong said. "Pay attention to what you're doing in social media," he added. "You have to be aware and vigilant about what you're putting on Twitter and Facebook. Those are kind of the obvious things." But there are other sites that are cataloging your life. Armstrong said they gather information on everything about you, from your home value to your ethnicity and even where you live and your income. Search engines, such as ZabaSearch, Spokeo, and Honestly.com, he said, were created for the express purpose of finding people. He said these sites gather publicly accessible information and bring it together into a profile about you. "It's legal, it's legit. It's your utility bills. It's your public records. Your private, personal property levels. All of the information in the varying data bases," Armstrong said. "But they bring all of the information together into one screen. That's why it's so powerful. You're talking about what private investigators used to take months, if not years to compile all of this information and you can do it in a matter of clicks." The sites enable people to track each other. "If you're going on a date, you don't know much about the individual, you can use the site. My sister has done that," Armstrong said. "You use the sites to see, you know, is he lying about where he is. Guys out there, be forewarned, the information is out there. I should say with some of the sites, we need to have a little bit of a warning, since it's publicly accessible information from government databases and others, some may not be exact or precise and accurate." The dissemination of inaccurate information is now becoming an issue for many people. Armstrong said it happens when people post information about you that you don't know exists. "They're taking it out on the Web because they can hide (in) the veil of the Internet and they can be anonymous and post all types of information that can really damage your character and damage your opportunities," he said. To fight back, Armstrong recommends contacting the people-based search engines directly. "If you scroll right down to the bottom, hit the privacy tab at the bottom, it will give you the steps to remove yourself from the sites, but the information is publicly accessible," he explained. "If another site pops up, you have the same problem." If this becomes an issue for you, Armstrong said, you can take it a step further and hire someone to protect you online with a service, such as Reputation.com. "(It's a) phenomenal service that charges you $8 all the way up to $58 a month depending on the level of protection you need. They help you monitor the online snapshot, if you will. They can clean it up, they can help maintain it and make sure the content is coming from you, it's your side of the story." Other services include MetalRabbitMedia.com and Trackur.com. If you're looking to watch your reputation for free, Armstrong recommends these tips: 1. Set up Google alerts for your name. You'll receive an e-mail any time your name appears on the web. 2. Build your brand. Buy your name as a website or buy it for your kids. Even if they're not old enough to have an on-line presence yet, buy it so they're secure and create a blog to customize your content. 3. Customize Facebook settings. Photos get you in trouble the most. You want to customize it so if you're not tagged in photos, you don't have to worry about inappropriate images showing up on your profile page. 4. Monitor search engine photos. You can type in your name to a search engine and click on images and can show you what images are associated with your name out on the internet. Make sure you're uploading new paragraphs with your name in it. So Mario Armstrong's wedding or Mario Armstrong's graduation photo. That way the images that you want to appear, will. Watch the video below, post your comments http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=7361773n&tag=related;photovideo

Friday, April 8, 2011

How good are Obama's Re-election Chances?



How good are Obama's re-election chances?









Posted by Brian Montopoli


President Obama has officially kicked off his re-election campaign. So it's a good time to ask: how good are his chances - at the moment, at least - to win a second term? The short answer is: Pretty decent. (The even shorter answer, according to the speculators over at Intrade, is: 59.4%.) For starters, Mr. Obama is polling well against two of his most likely opponents: A poll last month found Mr. Obama would beat Mitt Romney by nine points and Tim Pawlenty by 19 points in a hypothetical head-to-head matchup if the election were today. The margin was narrower against a generic Republican candidate (something that, of course, doesn't exist) - but even there Mr. Obama held the edge, 45 percent to 40 percent. Mr. Obama's approval rating two years into his term (49 percent) was higher than two of the last two three presidents to win a second term - Presidents Reagan and Clinton. (President George W. Bush had a 59 percent approval rating at the midpoint in his first term.) Then-presidential candidate Barack Obama waves to the audience after a speech in Berlin in 2008.(Credit: AP) And as Time's Michael Scherer notes, even those who disagree with Mr. Obama tend to like him - a crucial factor in winning the independents who broke from the Democrats in the 2010 midterm elections. The fact that 84 percent of Americans (according to an Associated Press poll last month) call Mr. Obama a likeable person speaks to his advantage among the casual voters who may not go to the polls in a midterm year but will cast ballots in 2012. Because he is extremely unlikely to face a serious primary challenger, Mr. Obama can appeal to these voters from the start - as he did in his campaign kickoff video, which showed a man stating that he doesn't "agree with Obama on everything, but I respect him and I trust him." The Republican contenders, meanwhile, will be busy in the coming months appealing to their base to try to survive the primary - something that means potentially alienating potential swing voters. Obama seeks to bring in big bucks for 2012Obama faces two opponents as he begins 2012 runGOP attacks as Obama announces re-election bid And that's just the start of the bad news for Republicans. The potential candidates who would seem to have the strongest appeal to swing voters - people like Indiana's Mitch Daniels and Utah's John Huntsman - will have a tough time getting through the primaries if they enter the race. Even if someone with relatively broad appeal wins the nomination, they will be linked at some level to the more polarizing figures in their party -- think Michele Bachmann -- who are sure to win more than their fair share of media coverage. (at left, CBS News' Chip Reid and Rob Hendin discuss how Obama will try to keep the campaign and White House separate.) Then there's the prospect of a strong third-party candidate making waves in the general election. If the Tea Party backs a challenger to a Republican nominee it sees as too moderate, the conservative vote could be split, making Mr. Obama's path to victory that much easier. Without Ross Perot, it's worth remembering, Mr. Clinton might never have been president.) Also important is the power of incumbency. As Mark McKinnon and Myra Adams note, "In the last 56 U.S. presidential elections, 31 have involved incumbents; 21 of those candidates have won more than one term." Incumbents have the advantage of being a known quantity - and even voters not entirely sold on a president tend to favor the known over the unknown. Then there's the money: Mr. Obama showed himself to be an astounding fundraiser in 2008, raising a staggering $750 million; he is expected to potentially hit the $1 billion mark this time around. Republicans will fight hard to match Mr. Obama on the money front, with the help of the GOP-leaning outside groups that the Supreme Court has freed up to spend massive amounts on behalf of candidates. But that's an uphill fight - as will be their attempt to match Mr. Obama's well-oiled campaign apparatus and voter turnout operation. Poll after poll, meanwhile, shows that the most important issue for Americans is jobs and the economy. That's why you now see Republicans attacking on that front: In response to Mr. Obama's election announcement, for example, Romney Tweeted, "I look forward to hearing details on your jobs plan, as are 14m unemployed Americans." But the potential problem with that strategy is that the economy seems to be improving - most notably, the unemployment rate fell to a two-year low in March. And while the trends could reverse before next year, it appears likely that the economic landscape will be improved from the depth of the recession by the time voters weigh in. That would take a lot of the sting out of Republican attacks over the stimulus package and, more broadly, Mr. Obama's stewardship of the economy. It takes electoral votes to win election, of course, not actual votes, as Al Gore knows all too well. And there are red flags for Mr. Obama on this front - he won states in 2008, like North Carolina, Indiana and Virginia, that have traditionally been red. And in the 2010 midterms, Republicans triumphed in key swing states like Wisconsin, Michigan and Florida. Nine states that will be key in 2012 But midterm rebukes don't necessarily portend trouble for presidents in the following election - Presidents Clinton, Reagan and Eisenhower saw their parties face serious electoral defeats two years into their presidencies and went on to victories two years later. Indeed, those midterm elections may even be a boon for Mr. Obama - Americans tend to like divided government, and with the House firmly in GOP hands, they no longer have a unified Democratic Party to vote against. Watch the video below.




What do you think - Yes or No....Is President Obama likely to be re-elected? Post your comments.

Song of the day.....Called To Be (Official Video) - Jonathan Nelson feat. PURPOSE

Love this song!

Daily Bible Verse

Verse of the day

“I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” - Galatians 2:20

Today's passage is from the New King James Version.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Extreme Couponing- Are you Willing to to Clip Coupons to Save Hundreds?


We all love to save money as we checkout at the register. It's great when it's a surprise, but what if we took just a little time to prepare and expect savings. Extreme Couponing is the new wave of the future. It has taken on such a life of its own, that TLC has a new reality series following individuals that are so serious about clipping, storing, and using their coupons. The savings is amazing. Now don't think its just this upcoming show. Take a look at the video posted. It is a news report about a young woman who spends 40 minutes prepping to go to the market. When others saw how much she saved, she even begin teaching her technique at a local college. That is how demanding knowledge of extreme couping has become. We're not just talking markets either. You can get coupons online for other items also. Even look at the bottom or backs of your receipts. many of them will offer you a free or discounted item if you simply take a survey. We have posted some coupon sites below to get you started. It just takes a little time and preparation. Need more encouragement? Look at the clip below and see how much the woman pays for $167 worth of groceries after she uses her coupons. It will blow you away.
So, would you spend a few minutes a day clipping and organizing coupons in order to save money at your local stores?

  • 5 Best Coupon Clipping Websites according to smartmoney.com

1. couponmom.com
2. coupons.com
3. couponcabin.com
4. retailmenot.com
5. smartsource.com

Laugh of the Day- Funny Family Fued Moment

Helpful Hint-"Keep Your Car Up and Running"

Driving anywhere you want, at anytime you want is a great luxury. However, cars can become costly if you do not do preventive maintenance on your vehicle. Auto repair shops and dealerships provide excellent service after your car is in trouble, but sometimes the cost can dig a deep hole in your pockets. This can be due to our own negligence. One local mechanic reported that a car died because a woman simply kept forgetting to get an oil change- for 2 years! Below are some helpful hints to check for periodically. We pray this helps keep your car at its best and to avoid major mechanic work.


CHECK EACH MONTH

  • oil level -- add oil if low and check for leaks
  • hoses -- replace if bulging, rotten, or brittle
  • belts -- replace if worn, frayed, or glazed
  • tire pressure -- add air if low
  • coolant or antifreeze -- add more if low
  • air filter -- replace if dirty
  • inspect tires for leaks, damage, bulges, or uneven wear

CHECK EVERY 3 MONTHS

  • oil and oil filter -- change every 3,000 miles
  • windshield washer fluid -- add fluid if low
  • battery and power steering fluid -- add fluid if low
  • brake fluid -- add fluid if low
  • transmission fluid -- add fluid if low
  • battery terminals and cables -- clean if corroded

CHECK EVERY 6 MONTHS

  • wiper blades -- replace if worn, brittle, or smeary
  • make sure headlights, brake lights, and turn signals work
  • make sure horn works properly
  • inspect brakes for wear and tear or "slippage"
  • make sure spare tire is fully inflated
  • inspect exhaust system for rust, damage, or loose parts
  • inspect shock absorbers for oil seepage or wear

Copyright 2000-2009 Ramona Creel

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Daily Bible Verse

"God has delivered me from going down to the pit,
and I shall live to enjoy the light of life."- Job 33:28

Today's passage is from the New International Version, ©2011.-Biblegateway.com

Should Pastors Cash Winning Lottery Tickets Left as an Offering?

Imagine going to your local grocery store and seeing your devoted Pastor in the lottery line. Yes, the man or woman of God is standing at the pink machine cashing in a winning ticket. I'm sure anyone would be shocked at this sight, but what if it was an offering? Does that make it okay for the church to accept this money? Also, with so many horror stories of people being sued by friends and family for their lottery winnings, is it wise to cash the ticket? Read the attached article below from Baltimore's WBAL News website and give us your opinion. A local church, (that is purposely left nameless in the article) reported that someone left a $30,000 winning scratch off lottery ticket in the collection plate. The Pastor of the church has already confirmed that he will cash the ticket and use it for church expenses and to help some families in need. So, with money exchanging hands so many times we don't usually know where its been. It could have been in the midst of a drug deal for all we know. But it is in God's Hands now, right? So, should the Pastor cash the lottery ticket and put it to the use he has suggested?


Lottery: $30K Ticket Left In Church Collection Plate - Baltimore, Maryland News Story - WBAL Baltimore

BALTIMORE -- Maryland Lottery officials said the pastor of a struggling parish recently came across a generous donation in the collection plate -- a $30,000 scratch-off ticket.
Lottery officials didn't release the name of the church but did say the ticket had been scratched off when it was placed in the collection plate earlier this month.
The pastor found the ticket when tallying that Sunday's contributions.
Read The Lottery's Press Release
The church will use the money toward operating expenses, but the pastor said he hopes some of the money can be shared with those in need.
"I have no idea who did this," the pastor told Lottery workers, admitting that he had to ask someone if the ticket was indeed a winner. "I really have no clue."
The winning "Cash Craze Crossword" ticket was purchased at No. 1 Liberty Mart on Liberty Road in Randallstown.

Get Fit Tip: Oral Health Matters


Smile! No, we don't want a picture of you. We want to check those teeth, gums, and breath. Oral hygene is important just as any other part of your body. Check the article below found at colgate.com to learn about good hygiene and how to maintain your healthy smile.

What is Good Oral Hygiene?

What is Good Oral Hygiene?
Good oral hygiene results in a mouth that looks and smells healthy. This means:

  • Your teeth are clean and free of debris
  • Gums are pink and do not hurt or bleed when you brush or floss
  • Bad breath is not a constant problem

If your gums do hurt or bleed while brushing or flossing, or you are experiencing persistent bad breath, see your dentist. Any of these conditions may indicate a problem.

Your dentist or hygienist can help you learn good oral hygiene techniques and can help point out areas of your mouth that may require extra attention during brushing and flossing.

How is Good Oral Hygiene Practiced?
Maintaining good oral hygiene is one of the most important things you can do for your teeth and gums. Healthy teeth not only enable you to look and feel good, they make it possible to eat and speak properly. Good oral health is important to your overall well-being.

Daily preventive care, including proper brushing and flossing, will help stop problems before they develop and is much less painful, expensive, and worrisome than treating conditions that have been allowed to progress.

In between regular visits to the dentist, there are simple steps that each of us can take to greatly decrease the risk of developing tooth decay, gum disease and other dental problems. These include:

  • Brushing thoroughly twice a day and flossing daily
  • Eating a balanced diet and limiting snacks between meals
  • Using dental products that contain fluoride, including toothpaste
  • Rinsing with a fluoride mouthrinse if your dentist tells you to
  • Making sure that your children under 12 drink fluoridated water or take a fluoride supplement if they live in a non-fluoridated area.
Proper Brushing Technique
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Tilt the brush at a 45° angle against the gumline and sweep or roll the brush away from the gumline.

Gently brush the outside, inside and chewing surface of each tooth using short back-and-forth strokes.

Gently brush your tongue to remove bacteria and freshen breath.

Proper Flossing Technique
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Use about 18" of floss, leaving an inch or two to work with.

Gently follow the curves of your teeth.

Be sure to clean beneath the gumline, but avoid snapping the floss on the gums.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Gospel Song of The Day: Your Show




It is Tuesday and not too late to set our path for the week. We can move forward. We have the ability to reach out next plateau. We need to learn to move out of His way and let Him take over. Letting go and letting God is all about surrendering the people we love to God’s loving arms and leaving them there.


Ephesians 2:10- For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. 




“All I need is your love/ You shower me with your grace from above/ Lord you write the pages of my life.”

Daily Bible Verse

“For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.” - 2 Corinthians 5:14-15
Today's passage is from the New International Version, ©2011.-Biblegateway.com

3 Lies About Premarital Sex [Opinion]


Vice and sin are sexy. Character and virtue… not so much. Last week there was an article about sex on the first date: SURVEY: Sex On The First Date; Do You? It started me to thinking and reading all the comments. Have we just given in  to what society has been selling us for the last 40 years. Sorry to say the Sexual Revolution came in and left us with one big mess.  It has let those of us with virtue be scorned. Character  is being erased. But where’s the line between them? What exactly is a virtue? Can it be taught? Are good, and bad, behavior hard-wired in us? Do we naturally need to experiment with every whim that crosses our fancy in order to determine who we are? You see less and less character as  you watch grown women throw themselves away on National television.  It’s become my new crusade to blow the lid off these half truths.   I am no prude but we need to stop selling the lies. They are destroying our communities.  It begins by stopping these three lies  first.


Lie #1- The Scriptures on sexual purity are outdated and archaic. “Those parts of the Bible aren’t relevant to today. Those things were when  the people during that time got married when they were teens; so they didn’t have to struggle with sexual temptation like we do now.” 1 Corinthians 6:9, 2 Corinthians 12:21, Galatians 5:19, Hebrews 13:4 and Deuteronomy 22:13-28, all which condemn sex before marriage,  If sex before marriage is okay because people supposedly can’t control themselves, then it must be okay to engage in pornography, too, right?. If scriptures in the Bible became untrue because people can’t control their desires, then we’d also have to cut out the commandments on stealing, lying, cheating and having affairs.

Lie # 2- Sex produces intimacy that you need to build a relationship. Dr. Patricia Love, the author of The Truth About Love, writes that a feeling of intimacy is created by a “chemical cocktail” that is produced in the brain during sex and stays with each person for up to 24 hours after intercourse. On the flip side, having sex is no guarantee that the deep emotional intimacy that everyone longs for will develop. “Genital sex is an expression of intimacy, not the means to intimacy. True intimacy springs from verbal and emotional communion. True intimacy is built on a commitment to honesty, love and freedom. True intimacy is not primarily a sexual encounter. Intimacy, in fact, has almost nothing to do with our sex organs. A prostitute may expose her body, but her relationships are hardly intimate.”

Lie # 3-Sex can help you determine compatibility? Many people feel it is unreasonable to expect him to abstain from sex before marriage because no one would buy a car without test driving it; so he couldn’t imagine committing to marriage without taking a “sex test drive.” The  “test drive” mentality could lead you to unreal expectations and the lack of commitment. Many say that is untrue. However, the logic is faulty. Here’s why: If it was true that  a person wouldn’t struggle with comparison, why would you need to “test drive” anything? After all, if you didn’t ever have multiple partners, you would automatically think his wife the best. For example, the man who hasn’t ever seen or driven more than one car doesn’t know what other cars are like; therefore he would be satisfied with his automobile.

Partners can also feel threatened if they think their mate could be comparing them with previous partners.
The reality is that we live in a dangerous damaged world. Each day we are fed more and more lies that allow us to lower are standards. How far are you willing to lower yours to feel like everyone else? It is time we rethought all the things we have been sold as truth.

Why must any more of us suffer from “is she better, or is she great disease”? But it can be hard to truly gauge the potential depth of a sexual connection when there’s uncertainty or pressure involved. Fact is, sex is the place where all the separate parts of us – our bodies and souls, our vulnerabilities and most secret desires, our ability to create physical and spiritual life – come together. And it’s within the freedom of a commitment that these things can best be acknowledged, explored, and given space to run wild. Otherwise we are just falling short of what we could have.

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Monday, April 4, 2011

10 Tips To Create New Family Habits For A Fresh Start

Spring is a wonderful time to create new family habits for a fresh start.  Some people consider spring time the real new year.  Here are some tips for creating new habits for your family:
Create New Family Habits For A Fresh Start

1. Commit to Thirty Days – Three to four weeks is all the time you need to make a habit automatic. If your family can make it through the initial conditioning phase, it becomes much easier to sustain. A month is a good block of time to commit to a change since it easily fits in the family calendar.
2. Make it Daily – Consistency is critical if you want to make a habit stick. If the family wants to start exercising, go for a walk or an play an active family Wii game day for your family’s first thirty days. Going a couple times a week will make it harder to form the habit. Activities you do once every few days are trickier to lock in as habits.
3. Start Simple – Don’t try to completely change your family life in one day. It is easy to get over-motivated and take on too much. If you wanted to study two hours a day, first make the habit to go for thirty minutes and build on that.
4. Stay Consistent – The more consistent your habit the easier it will be to stick. If you want to start exercising, try going at the same time, to the same place for your thirty days. When cues like time of day, place and circumstances are the same in each case it is easier to stick.
5. Replace Lost Needs - If you are giving up something in your habit, make sure you are adequately replacing any needs you’ve lost. If watching television gave you a way to relax, you could take up meditation or reading as a way to replace that same need.
6. Be Imperfect – Don’t expect all your attempts to change habits to be successful immediately. It took me four independent tries before I started exercising regularly. Now I love it. Try your best, but expect a few bumps along the way.
7. Use “But” – A prominent habit changing therapist once told me this great technique for changing bad thought patterns. When you start to think negative thoughts, use the word “but” to interrupt it. “I’m no good at this, but, if I work at it I might get better later.”
8. Remove Temptation - Restructure your environment so it won’t tempt you in the first thirty days. Remove junk food from your house, cancel your cable subscription, throw out the cigarettes so you won’t need to struggle with willpower later.
9. Run it as an Experiment - Withhold judgment until after a month has past and use it as an experiment in behavior. Experiments can’t fail, they just have different results so it will give you a different perspective on changing your habit.
10. Write it Down – A piece of paper with a resolution on it isn’t that important. Writing that resolution is. Writing makes your family goal ideas more clear and focuses you on your end result.

Daily Bread: An Attached Fuel Hose

Felipe Massa of Brazil should have won the Formula One Grand Prix in Singapore in September 2008. But as he drove off from a refueling stop while in the lead, the fuel hose was still attached. By the time his team removed the hose, he had lost so much time that he finished 13th.

The apostle Paul warned Timothy of another kind of attachment that would cause him defeat—“the affairs of this life” (2 Tim. 2:4). He urged Timothy not to let anything slow him down or distract him from the cause of his Lord and Master.

There are many attractive things in our world that are so easy to get entangled with—hobbies, sports, TV, computer games. These may start off as “refueling” activities, but later they can take up so much of our time and thought that they interfere with the purpose for which God created us: to share the good news of Christ, serve Him with our gifts, and bring glory to Him.

Paul told Timothy why he ought not be entangled with this world’s affairs: So that he could “please Him” (v.4). If your desire is to please the Lord Jesus, you will want to stay untangled from the world. As John reminds us, “The world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever” (1 John 2:17).

Although we live in this world,
we must declare our allegiance to heaven.

Am I getting a blessing or am I stealing?



Have you ever gone to a fast food chain and ordered your food and after receiving your order you check your bag and realize you have some extra food in your bag that you DIDN'T PAY FOR? What do you do?  Do you consider it a BLESSING or is it actually STEALING?  Do you take it back or make your way home to eat the extra goodies in your bag?

Do you sound like this:
"HALLELUJAH Thank you JESUS, they gave me an extra wing in my 3 piece!"

or

"They gave me an extra wing, I think I will take it back because JESUS would!"


We want to hear your stories so leave your comments. 

Sunday, April 3, 2011

Evangelism Weekend at Greater Paradise Christian Center

"Each One Reach One" is the slogan for the "Ambassadors of Paradise" or the Evangelism Ministry of the Greater Paradise Christian Center during the Months of April thru July. On Friday April 1st events began with "Joy Night" where the night was filled with guest choirs, guest liturgical dancers, guest step teams, and a Guest speaker, Pastor Kenyon Southers of the Salt Nation Church in Baltimore. The first Saturday of every month the leaders and members of GPCC come together at 10am for Corporate prayer. We pray corporately for our Church, families, our Communities, and Governmental Officials.
To Conclude our Evangelism weekend today, April 3rd at 10am we beging with our "Worship Experience" Denim Service. We are elated that during this service, our very own Mayor of Baltimore City Stephanie Rawlings-Blake, City Councilman Jack Young, the Baltimore City Sheriff, as well as other governmental officials could join us. Following our 10am Service our 12:30pm Family Style Cookout begins on the lawn. All members and guest are able to enjoy hamburgers, hotdogs, and much more all at no expense to them. Keeping in tune with the voting year, the Board of Elections in Baltimore City will be joining us by encouraging those individuals who are not registered voters to make sure they have the power to speak their minds by registering and casting their vote in November. We finally conclude this powerful weekend at the Towson AMF Bowling Lanes for our Family Bowling Event at 3pm. The best is yet to come for GPCC, and we will conclude this blog with our mission:


The mission of the Greater Paradise Christian Center is to reach a hungry world with the life-giving message of salvation through Jesus Christ, by means of worship, evangelism, fellowship, ministry, and discipleship.

LAUGH OUT LOUD....Michael Jr. - Pray With Your Neighbor

Daily Bread Bible Verse

Verse of the Day:


28 And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.

Romans 8:28 - NKJV

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Survey: Reccession's effects fading for some Churches

By Dan Gilgoff, CNN.com Religion Editor (CNN) - The worst of the recession may be over for some of America’s churches, a survey released Wednesday on religions donations indicated. According to the survey, called State of the Plate, 43% of churches saw a rise in contributions in 2010, compared to 36% that saw an increase the year before. Meanwhile, 39% of churches saw their giving dip last year, down from 47% that reported declines in 2009. The survey, which is not scientific, garnered responses in February and March from 1,507 churches, most of them U.S.-based. The survey included responses from 86 churches from other countries, primarily Canada. “Giving increases have begun to provide a glimmer of hope for many churches,” the survey reported. The economic recession has taken a financial toll on many churches, with some filing for bankruptcy or struggling to hold onto property. Smaller churches were hardest hit in 2010, with about 4 in 10 seeing contributions decline, compared to 3 in 10 megachurches – those with 2,000 or more weekly attendees. The survey was co-sponsored by Christian ministry Maximum Generosity, publisher Christianity Today International and the Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability. Churches responding to the survey represent evangelical (24%), Baptist (23%), Independent/Non-denominational (21%), mainline Protestant (13%), Charismatic/Pentecostal (12%), Catholic/Orthodox (2%) and other Christian traditions (5%). The survey also asked about President Barack Obama’s proposal to reduce tax deductions for charitable donations among wealthy Americans, with 9 in 10 churches reporting they would be negatively affected by such a move. How do you feel about this survey....post your comments.

Coming this April - Madea's Big Happy Family - Official Trailer

Tyler Perry is at it Again - Easter 2011

Daily Bread Bible Verse:

Verse of the day:


“To the Chief Musician. A Psalm of David.] The fool has said in his heart, “There is no God.” They are corrupt, They have done abominable works, There is none who does good.” - Psalm 14:1 Today's passage is from the New King James Version.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Filmaker: I found God In Hollywood

Great Story - Let us know what you think.....post your comments!

By Steve Almasy, CNN

(CNN) – It’s not impossible to be a Christian in Hollywood, Lee Stanley will tell you. What it does take is guts - the same guts it takes to be a Christian anywhere, he says. Stanley wasn’t a believer when he moved from New England to California in the 1960s. He was in love with a fantasy – not the idea of making it big on the big screen, but being around the water all the time.

The aspiring baseball player had realized he wasn’t going to make it to the major leagues, so he turned to another passion - diving. He had no idea the trek West would lead him on the road to becoming a filmmaker who tells stories of redemption and faith. Stanley details his life in “Faith in the Land of Make-Believe,” published this month by Zondervan. In a phone interview from his boat, he said he wrote the book to “to encourage people that have wandered away or lost the confidence in the things that have been on their heart for years.”

For years Stanley was lost, he just didn’t know it, he said. He spent his youth caring only about himself. He was raised to never show a weakness. He just wanted to have fun, make a little cash and spend time in the water off Catalina Island. He even thought about taking off on a tramp steamer setting sail for Greece, where he could do some diving. But a friend of a friend knew people in the movie business, and Stanley - then 19 - got a job as an extra on a Frank Sinatra film. He was intrigued by the industry, so he took other bit parts in film and television and soon signed with MGM. In 1966, he was considered for the part of Benjamin Braddock in “The Graduate,” but it went to Dustin Hoffman instead. His last acting role was in 1972’s “The Candidate,” where he appeared alongside Robert Redford. He was beyond bored, though. Too much sitting around and waiting, he says. So he started making documentaries. His distributor was a kind man named Dave Adams. Adams invited Stanley over for brunch with his wife but said they were going to church first. Stanley tried to get out of it, saying he had no jacket or tie and wouldn’t be presentable. Adams told him to come as he was. Stanley agreed - to appease the man with the money. They went to Church on the Way in Van Nuys, where a few hundred eager people were waiting for the first service to let out. He went from blasé to curious. Then the doors opened, and the smiling churchgoers spilled out. Now Stanley really wanted to see what was inside. He says it hit him right away once inside. He calls it The Voice. It said, “Welcome home. We have a lot of things to do together.”

Stanley embraced making faith-based films and documentaries, but he chose not to make them overly Christian. As an example of what he didn’t want to do, he remembered a film he saw shortly after moving to Hollywood. It was a beautiful work that touched all of his emotions, he said, but the one he felt at the end was anger. “It became a 10-minute, finger-pointing altar call,” he says. “I felt trapped and betrayed.” That’s not the way to win over non-believers or people struggling with their faith, he thought, not on screen nor in person. “I don’t lead with scripture any more than I expect people that have their own faith to constantly try to push me into it,” he said. On the other hand, when a studio or distributor pushed back on the themes of his movies, he would not compromise. He remained steadfast and worked with the people who accepted his philosophy. “I’ve been in a lot of good fights,” he says. “Sometimes I was a winner, sometimes I got kicked back where I belonged.”

His commitment led to an award-winning documentary, “Desperate Passage.” After meeting a youth offender at a correctional institution, Stanley found it in his heart to make a documentary about young criminals. In an unusual move, he petitioned the court to release seven juveniles into his custody, so that he could film them during a 10-day sail on his yacht. It took four years to get permission. “Everything I was asking for was illegal,” he says. “You weren’t supposed to take pictures of young offenders. I also asked to have my pick of the kids, and there were no guards [on the trip].” The struggles didn’t end after shooting wrapped. No TV station wanted to air the documentary. Two years later, a Los Angeles station director agreed to show it, and it got tremendous ratings. It won two Emmys and confirmed his mission in life. “We all have a God-ordained purpose in our life, but I have to add to that because I learned … that before he will lead us into each stage of our purpose, drawing us closer and closer, he has to do things in our life so we when we get to that next stage, we won’t misfire, destroy or lose,” he says. “That’s the wonderful thing about God.” Stanley also made "Gridiron Gang," starring Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson. Stanley’s son, Shane, helped produce it. Stanley and his third wife, Linda, are sailing these days as he writes the screenplay of his next project. It’s a victory story, he says. It appears the same can be said for his.

Song of the Day - There's Hope....India Arie

Daily Bible Verse

Verse of the Day:


20 Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us - Ephesians 3:20 KJV

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Is Church Making You Obese?


Fish Fries, Chicken Dinners, Church picnics, and Bake sales. These are some of the advertisements seen in churches across America. We come together to worship and we come together to fellowship and usually that means we're going to eat. But are these the reasons that some of our sanctified waistlines are expanding? The Northwestern University has conducted a study, which they believe proves that obesity is linked to religious activity. How, you might ask? Well, the study shows that those young adults that participate in religious activities are 50% more likely to become obese by middle age. They have followed 2,433 men and women ages 20 to 32 for 18 years to collect this data. And this data also indicates that at many religious functions, people eat "comfort" foods which are high in saturated fat and salt. So does this mean it's fair to blame religious activity for the obesity in the saints? No one is commanding people to eat these foods. Many times churches will offer healthy options as well. Read the article below and tell us your thoughts. Do you think it's fair to associate the obesity with religious activities? Is church making you obese?

Praise the lard? Religion linked to obesity in young adults

Weekly church activities boost obesity 50 percent by middle age, 18-year study shows


By Diane Mapes
msnbc.com contributor
updated 3/25/2011 8:19:56 AM ET

It might be the potlucks, it might be those long hours sitting in pews, but whatever the cause, a new study presented this week shows a link between religious activity and weight gain. The study, conducted by researchers at Northwestern University, found that young adults who frequently attended religious activities were far more likely to become obese than those who didn’t.

“Our main finding was that people with a high frequency of religious participation in young adulthood were 50 percent more likely to become obese by middle age than those with no religious participation in young adulthood,” says Matthew Feinstein, the study’s lead investigator and a fourth-year medical student at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine.

“And that is true even after we adjusted for variables like age, race, gender, education, income, and baseline body mass index," he added.

The study, presented at a meeting of the American Heart Association, followed 2,433 men and women starting between the ages of 20 and 32 for 18 years. Study subjects were all of normal weight at the beginning of the study. By the end, however, those who had attended a religious function at least once a week were more likely to be obese, posting a body mass index of 30 or higher. Previous research by Northwestern Medicine has found a correlation between religious involvement and obesity in middle age and older adults.

Are church attendees praising the lard along with the Lord?

“We didn’t look specifically at the potluck factor, but anecdotally, we know that oftentimes at these religious gatherings people will eat traditional comfort foods which are often high in fat and calories and salt,” says Feinstein. “But, again, that’s not something we looked at in this particular study.”

Three kinds of potato casserole
Jessica Ward, a 30-year-old notary public who regularly attends the Kent Lutheran Church, in Kent, Wash., says potlucks can definitely be filled with delicious temptation.

“You don’t see a lot of fresh stuff at most church potlucks,” she says. “You’ll see spaghetti and Swedish meatballs and three or four varieties of potato casserole or green bean casserole or Jell-O salads. Plus heaps and piles of desserts — lots of pies and cakes and cookies.”

Not all churches worship at the altar of sugar and salt, though.

Byron Krystad, director of operations at the University Unitarian Church in nearby Seattle, says sweets aren't often on the menu.

“People here are very much on the bandwagon with regard to organic foods and removing sugars and fats from their diet,” he says. “We get all sorts of feedback about what kind of snacks to have on Sunday morning during coffee hour. If somebody dares to bring out a cake, there’s an uproar about it.”

Feinstein says while obesity appears to be an issue for religious people, previous studies have shown that the faithful tend to live longer, be less likely to smoke, and to have better mental health status.

“The message is really an optimistic one,” he says. “Churches already have infrastructures in place, groups of people gathering regularly and providing social support. That’s hugely beneficial in implementing health intervention or implementing programs geared toward diet and physical activity."

Christian Joke of the Day

Prayers


A little girl, dressed in her Sunday best, was running
as fast as she could, trying not to be late for Bible class.

As she ran she prayed,
"
Dear Lord, please don't let me be late! Dear Lord, please don't let me be late!"

As she was running and praying, she tripped on a curb
and fell, getting her clothes dirty and tearing her dress.
She got up, brushed herself off, and started running again.

As she ran she once again began to pray,
"
Dear Lord, please don't let me be late!...But don't shove me either."

Song of the Day- "Expect The Great"by Jonathan Nelson feat Purpose

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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Should Text Message Blockers be Installed in Cars?

texting while driving 625x419 Text message and phone call blockers aim to improve vehicle safety

We have all heard that texting on the phone is illegal in many states and has caused many vehicle accidents. Well, just as there is a new demand in vehicle safety, someone has created the supply. You can now purchase a device that will block all incoming and outgoing text messages and calls while your car is in gear. Once the car is turned off, your phone will enable your messaging and calling features. The cost is average $25-$70 for the cell phone blocker, and it is projected to be as common as airbags and GPS in the future. Many parents are considering this option, due to the alarming rate of teen reported accidents due to texting. Below are some facts reported on Carlover Magazine.com by Tim Beissmann on November 16, 2010.
  • One US study found that drivers are eight times more likely to be involved in an accident while texting, and that texting while driving is equivalent to driving under the influence of four shots of alcohol
  • The National Safety Council in the US estimated 28 percent of all American vehicle accidents – or 1.6 million per year – are related to mobile phone distraction, and texting is believed to be responsible for between three and 18 percent of the total
  • A 2006 study by the Monash University Accident Research Centre into the effects of text messaging while driving on young people found that the time drivers spent with their eyes off the road increased by up to 400 percent when sending and receiving messages
  • A poll by Telstra at the beginning of this year found that almost one third of Australian drivers admitted to sending and receiving texts while behind the wheel.
Take a look at the AT&T documentary below of four separate stories of life changing texts. See how the following simple texts had drastic effects on people involved and try to hold back the tears. (1. yeah 2. lol 3. where u at 4. where r)

Song of the Day by Travis Greene "Prove My Love"


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